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Thanks for visiting my website. This is my uncensored review of How To Make Him Desire You book by Alex Carter.
Before we get started I want to clarify, I am giving a comprehensive and honest review of Alex Carter’s relationship guide for women. I will be covering all the essential information you need to know before getting a copy of the book yourself.
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What is How to Make Him Desire You about?
It’s a dating advice book for women, teaching them how to improve their relationship, be a better partner and understand men better in general.
The book provides relationship advice for women for all stages of a relationship.
Whether you are interested in a particular guy and want to get his attention or you already are a couple with that guy but your relationship has issues and you want to fix them, the book can help you.
Who is Alex Carter?
Alex Carter is a relationship expert and dating coach. He has spent years counselling and helping men and women master the art of attraction and get the best out of their relationships.
Now let’s take a look at the contents of the book. For the first half of the book the reader is introduced to several well known male psychology concepts.
This helps the reader understand how men think and act in terms of relationships and points out the most common misconceptions women have about men. Here are some of these concepts:
1. The emotional attraction scale
A scale, which shows a man’s attraction to a particular woman from 1 to 10, 10 being highest, 1 being lowest.
The scale helps a woman understand how much a man is attracted toward her and what needs to be done to increase that attraction, given her starting position.
2. The concept of investing in the relationship.
Another psychological concept, that so many people don’t understand. Basically it’s this: When 2 people are a couple both partners must invest an equal amount of time and effort in the relationship for it to grow.
What often happens is one partner stops investing and the other starts investing even more hoping that he/she can pick up the slack so that the relationship can endure.
However this is a mistake and has exactly the opposite effect. The chapter shows how to prevent this from happening in your relationship or how to fix it, if your relationship already is at that level.
Moreover, Alex also talks about the Value concept. If you want a man to value you and respect you, you must first value and respect yourself. So, what determines your value?
- How you treat yourself
- How attainable you are for him
- How strong your boundaries are
If a woman demonstrates high value a man will respect and value her a lot more.
The 2nd half of the book focuses on the tricks and techniques based on the psychology from the 1st half, which a woman can use to awaken a man’s desire. Here are some:
The emotional tune-up methods
These methods are based on the concept that men are genetically wired to pursue and they get a great deal of pleasure while doing it.
So, if you serve yourself on a silver platter to him, you will take the chase away from him.
You will have a short-term relationship with the man and then he will dump you for someone more challenging.
The methods in this section can help a woman keep a man’s desire and interest toward her for a long time, without playing the cliche “hard to get”.
Another interesting technique Alex recommends is the unconditional respect method.
Every man wants to be respected and acknowledged by a woman. If you show him respect unconditionally, he will respond with love in return.
And one very powerful is capture his heart by revealing your imperfections.
When a woman honestly opens up, and shows a little vulnerability at the same time, a man unconsciously feels a sense of comfort and bonding.
This method directly triggers a man’s protective instincts.
A man can’t help but feel drawn to a woman who is capable of revealing a weaker side of herself, without being too scared, of how she might be perceived.
There are several more chapters where Alex shows how men are different than women in handling emotions, thinking and communicating. And this is really useful to know, because many women fail to understand that men perceive love and relationships in a different way.
Here are screenshots of the contents of the book, if you want to see exactly what’s inside:
What are the bad things about Alex Carter’s How to make him desire you?
Like every book I have reviewed so far, this one has downsides.
- The examples he gives are too much in depth. He uses a examples a lot in the book, which is good, but they are way too long.
For instance he starts by saying, “I had a client named Amy and she had an argument with her boyfriend” and then he talks about this story for 5 pages just to prove a point, providing so much unnecessary details, while he could have compressed it in only 1 page and still make his point.
- Most of the methods in the book are unconventional – he uses psychological concepts to back up his claims, but most of the techniques I haven’t seen or heard anywhere before.
And what are the good things about How to make him desire you?
- The book is very easy to read. Apart from the problem with the examples, his style is enjoying and easy to go through.
The book has only has the important information you need and spares you the unnecessary details.
- Alex gives a psychological explanation for his approach. Although very unconventional, Alex shows well known proven psychology concepts behind each one of his methods and techniques.
And he gives proof that they work by sharing his clients’ stories.
- The book can be used by anyone. It doesn’t matter how much you weigh, how old you are, what relationship you have with the man, the methods and techniques can be used by any woman on any man.
Overall, what do I think?
How to Make Him Desire You by Alex Carter in my eyes is a good quality relationship/dating advice book. As a guy, I can definitely say that course does an excellent job of breaking a lot of myths about how men think and what men really want. The book has great unique content, psychological concepts backing up the methods and real life examples that they actually work.
So, if you are interested to learn some unconventional ways to get a guy more attracted, if you have relationship problems and want to fix them or you simply want to better understand men in general, then this book is for you.
I hope my review has helped you get a better idea about the How to make him desire you ebook.